Fatwa: # 17993
Category: Misc. Fiqh
Country: Pakistan
Date: 28th May 2009

Title

Unanswered

Question

AOA Mufti sahab.

Im sorry to ask such questions to u, but im newly married and i wanted to know the answers to my questions, as i dont want to commit a sin.

I know that u dont answer such questions anymore and u have published such answers on different links related to masturbation and etc. but i couldnt find =my answers there so Plz plz plz help me by answering my questions. If u mind them publishing on ur website, then no problem, just kindly reply them to my email address.

1. Is it okay to have telephone sex with my husband? As he lives abroad and has a very busy schedule and he just misses me alot. Our nikkah was performed last year and our ruksati is not yet confirmed.

2. I've read on ur website that licking ur spouse's private parts is not allowed as the discharging liquid is not healthy.. i wanted to ask that if my husband is wearing a condom, then can i take his private organ in my mouth?

3. Can i take shower with my husband?

4. Can my husband insert his fingers in my vagina to increase the pleasure?

Thank you once again and im extremely sorry about the nature of my questions. I hope u will help me trying to commit a sin.

Answer

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