Fatwa: # 17475
Category: Misc. Fiqh
Country: India
Date: 10th February 2009

Title

Unanswered

Question

I am from . I am working in a software company. I am in a difficult situation to take a decision. The problem is regarding my marriage. I like to be 100% deeni in my life and also I like Dauwah. Now I am doing Duawah with Tabligh jamath. I like to marry a 100% deeni girl. I like non-working wife. I like my wife should wear niqab and all.

 

 

 

 

But in my home situation is very different. They are not supporting for my deeni views. My father was a government employee. I have three sisters. They all are working. My brother in laws are also working. All my family members are against my deeni views. They are not ready to look for a deeni girl. They are searching for working and educated girls.

 

 

 

 

Till now many proposals came. Many are working in software firms, some are doctors and all. But I can not agree with sending them for job. I am in a very drastic situation. After starting the marriage proposals, I am very unhappy. Please tell me the right solution.

 

 

 

 

1)       Should I marry the girl they are selecting for me?

 

 

2)       Should I search for a deeni girl?

 

 

3)       If  I am marrying a working girl should I have to answer before Allah for sending them outside?

 

 

Answer

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