Fatwa: # 17458
Category: Misc. Fiqh
Country: Pakistan
Date: 8th February 2009

Title

Unanswered

Question

Asasalam-o-Alaikum!! I want to ask tabeer of my dream.. just want to tell you the background first... Im 23 yrs old now and these days i sgerely feel that i should have a partner to share my feelings with!!! i lovd someone but could not be togather in a relation.. some times i get exited i dont know why!! i feel i should have a spouse, may be its is because of my cusins who just got married although they are younger then me.. Last night I just prayed to Allah to give me handsome , lovable, sincere, modest husband.. just like an ideal... when i slept i had a dream that some how i dont know y and i dont remember how i am suppose to marry my chachu( father's brother he is a step brother ) im agrred and am happy too that he is smart , modest etc but he is already married but still we have to marry each other.... but in the mean time im also thinking that he is my chachu ... how can I marry him.....im in a conflict im happy but nervous.. all our family ppl know that we will marry..even my father comes and say to us that i should decide what to do !! am I agrred.. he asks me and chachu.. then other to chachu come and then take my oath( razamandi) by sayin that in the name of Allah do u consider him as your husband and i dont know im trembling n i just said yes my father is also sitting ...i don know but i said yes..... and before this my chachu(whom im getting married with) come to and say do u want to ask any thing... then he says himself that i have got your details and you were born on that date and day and i was born this day and date (i dont exactly remeber) so i wanted to tell u that its ok that v get married  and i say yes this is what i wanted to ask... and after that oath v r left alone in the room ...but v didnt do any thing both just thinking that what should v do!! and that very moment i awaked and the fajar prayers were  being  recited (i dont know the english).. and i am so embarressd i dont know and m confused that y this dream came even i have never thought that way regarding my chachu... pls tell me the tabeer. JAZAK'ALLAH...

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